Get answers to your questions on Sexual problems and Relationship problems from 
Dr. D.Narayana Reddy
M.B.B.S; Ph.D.; F.I.C; F.A.C.S; A.C.S.T.


 

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Question by: Prataap
i am 32 male. I masturbath almost daily, so i feel weak especially on my legs....Which is the best natural food to regain weakness without stopping masturbathing daily.
Answer by Dr: Masturbation is a normal physiological phenomenon and is indulged in by a majority of persons sometime or other in their lifetime. It can not cause any weakness. If you have weakness of the legs then there must be other reasons for it. Check with your doctor. Whatever food that is good for the overall general health can be used by you. There are no special foods for sex. By the way why is that you masturbate daily ? Either you are bored and trying to overcome it through masturbation or you have a Compulsive Disoreder. If it is the first one you must learn to spend your free time more purposefully. If it is the second then you need the help of a psychiatrist.
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Question by: sudhir
deardr, i, am suffering from low libido.having low testeron level.on advice of endocrinologist i have taken viagra but no relief.also having premature ejaculation .i donthave diabeties but having BP.Taking tabletof CARDASE 5 MG ,daily.erection is notstrong,notsustanable.i am 46yrsold,married.please advice.
Answer by Dr: Low testosterone ( male sex hormone) levels will reduce sexual desire. For this you have to take testosterone preparations either orally or through injections. Penegra is useful for erectile Dysfunction and not for low libido. The anti blood pressure tablet you are using may also affect your erectile response. Probably you need to take a combination of testosterone and sildenafil citrate.You need to have a comprehensive evaluation to find out the cause for your sexual problems. I suggest that you consult a medical sexologist.
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Question by: Gopalakrishnan
Dear Dr.,I am married recently and I have a problem with premature ejaculation. I am healthy and does not have any illness. I have ejaculation with in few strokes.Will you please sugest any medicine which will prolong the ejaculation. Is it possible to buy these medicines off the shelf from medical stores? Thanking you and await an answer from you. I had written to you earlier but no respose from you. Regards.
Answer by Dr: You may have high levels of sexual excitement due to novelty factor of a recent marriage. Most probably you will settle down in a few weeks. If the problem continues then the causative factors have to be appropriately assessed. For this you need to consult a Medical Sexologist. There are some medicines which can delay the ejaculation, but they can produce side effects. Hence they have to be consumed only under medical supervision. These drugs can not be purchased across the counter.
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Question by: rahul
hey! doctor...please help me!...i am 19 year old....after masturbating..and after the release of sperms i generally fell very drowsy and very tired?...is there any problem with me or is it natural??.....is there any way to feel re energised after masturbating?
Answer by Dr: After an act of sex - either sexual intercourse or Masturbation - the body needs some rest. This is because the energy cost of a sex act is 200 calories. Not only that the blood pressure shoots up to 200 mm of mercury and the heart rate crosses 100 per minute. The breathin rate also jumps to around 40 per minute. The body needs a resting period to get back to base line functiong. That is why we feel tiredafter a sex act. This a normal physiological phenomenon and happens to every individual.
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Question by: Afsar
I need to contact you, please advise your contact details.Many ThanksAfsar
Answer by Dr: You may contact my clinic. Phone numbers are < 044-24354242 > and < 044-42024828 >
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Question by: mmahendra
sir, my problem is that even at this age of 60 yrs i do sex at least two times every night. My wife does not like more than once. But i get pain in my penis if i do not do second time, should i musterbate for second time.
Answer by Dr: You seem to be having an Obsessive disorder. You need to consult a Psychiatrist. Regarding the pain in the penis consult an Urologist.
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Question by: riya
sir,my friend has been married for three years and still without kids,friends and family were worried ,when i got to talk to her i understood that they didnot have a successful sexual life .since they dont want to consult anyone back home could u please inform us of any good infertility clinics for counselling and guidance in hyderbad thank you
Answer by Dr: You may contact the Dept. of Reproductive Medicine at Apollo Hospital, Hyderabad.
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Question by: amit
I have sex without any protection with my wife during her 6th day of period (after bleeding). Next day morning she is complaining of something white dischage from vagina. Is it because of infection or otherwise why it is happening. please advise.
Answer by Dr: The vaginal dischare your wife is having need to be examined under microscope to detremine whether it is due an infection or not. Get your wife examined by a doctor.
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Question by: Yuva
Male, 32, married for 6 yrs, both sexually satisfied. We indulge in longer foreplay but once i penetrate i cannot last long, though i delay it by 'stop and start' method and succeed in satisfying her fully. In the mid of longer foreplay i feel urge to urinate and had to go to toilet and urinate sometimes few drops only. Also, after finishing intercourse i feel same urge to urinate and go to toilet and urinate. My point is why this urge to urinate during foreplay (which interrupts the act) and after finishing the intercourse? Please advise.
Answer by Dr: This may be due to any one of the following reasons :( a) you may be a highly tensed person. As a result all your systems may be hyperactive. The sexual arousal must be producing increased muscle tone not only in the penis but also in the urinary bladder. (b) There may be weakness in the neck of your Urinary bladder. This weakness results in the inability of the bladder to hold back urine till the desired time/ duration. You need to have a thorough assessment which includes Urodynamic study, Voiding Urethrogram and Neurological assessment.
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Question by: prasad
i am 28 year old single male doctor working as a general practitioner in mangalore. My problem is that i am not married and still a virgin.i am getting many marriage proposal but i am not able to say yes to any proposal because of following problems1) i am not able to get full erections which are like in blue films, though i get erections but it is not completly hard like my past erections in teen , and it will be hard only just before i ejaculation during mastrubation.2) My penis is only 3 and 1/2 inches long while erectionnow my questions are i) will i be able to have sex normally with the above mentioned size of penis and above mentioned amount of erection or should i need to take any treatment before i get married, if i can get married?please reply to me at the earliest, thanking youdr.prasad
Answer by Dr: Physiologically the penis attains maximal size and rigidity just before ejaculation. hence you need not worry on this count. All that a man requires, for a satisfactory sex life, is a two inch or five centimeter long erection This is because it is just the first two inches of the vagina that are sensitve to touch sensation.On this count also you need have no worries. What you see in blue films is an optical illusion. The organs in the film appear bigger than real life / size due to this illusion. Don't compare yourself with these film images and get worried.
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Question by: nash
i have been brought up in a family with my elder sisters so i have always liked female company and female stuff,at age of 14 one boy 4 year elder to me had made sexual contact with me but he had done that so nicely that i dont resisted it but now i want be free from allthis and wanna live like a man,so how could i control the female type emotion which had been developed in me due the circumstances of my life.plzzzzzz reply bcoz are the only help at hand and i m only boy in family so wanna make my family proud dont wanna waste my life in all such thing but i also cant control my feeling.plzzzzz reply.
Answer by Dr: There are three possibilities. You have transvestite tendency or Homosexual tendency or a transexual tendency. Transvestites are individuals who derive sexual pleasure by dressing in the clothes of the opposite sex. Homosexuals are individuals who get attracted sexually only to the members of the same sex (gender). Transexuals are individuals who believe strongly that they are placed by mistake into the body of the wrong gender. ( for example abiological male may belive that he is actually a female and by some mistake taken birth in a male body). Consult a Sexologist for proper assessment and management.
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Question by: sanoop
hi Doctor i have heard quite a deal about you . i personally believe you will suggest a good solution for my situation i am 24 year old and employed . my sex organs are underdeveloped . i feel very much sad about this my condition is becoming very physcological and i am afraid of leading a happy married life in future.my family will pressure me for marriage in a couple of years , i have not yet confronted them of my concerns . at times i get very depressed , i need medical care PLEASE suggest me a good solution whom should i contact for treatment . i am looking for your reply
Answer by Dr: Do not worry unduly. Nature makes sure that most people are normal. Very rarely they are underdeveloped. If you are in doubt it is best to get examined physically by a qualified doctor.
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Question by: GOPAN
Dear Dr.How to avoid homo from mind
Answer by Dr: You can not. People do not choose to be Homosexuals. They are born that way. Madecal science has accepted it as a normal variant.
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Question by: karunakaran
Dear Doc,I'm married and have 09yrs old son. Presently i'm not interested for second child. Earlied we adopted IUD now not. I'm not interested in Condum. In this condition i would like to know the safe period of sex. i.e. i've heared that a week before and after mensural period is safe. How far it is true? Can you please clear my doubt. I would like to know the exact period> Thanks
Answer by Dr: Safe period Method is known as Rhythm Method in Medical parlance.The idea is to avoid sexual intercourse around the time of ovulation,which is when an egg is released from the ovary.Generally ovulation occurs around the 14th day of a normal and regular menstrual cycle. The greatest likelyhood of getting pregnant lies centered around this time. Since the exact date of ovulation can not be prejudged accurately, one week prior to and after the 14th day is to be avoided. The main set back of this method is to factually establish the time and date of ovulation. Additionally, many women may not have a perfect 28day cycle which tilts the balances and the calculculations.
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Question by: sanoop
hi Doctor i have heard quite a deal about you . i personally believe you will suggest a good solution for my situation i am 24 year old and employed . my sex organs are underdeveloped . i feel very much sad about this my condition is becoming very physcological and i am afraid of leading a happy married life in future.my family will pressure me for marriage in a couple of years , i have not yet confronted them of my concerns . at times i get very depressed , i need medical care PLEASE suggest me a good solution whom should i contact for treatment . i am looking for your reply
Answer by Dr: What exactly do you mean by " under developmed"? As far as the penis length is concerned, all that a man requires is a 2inch or 5 centimeter long penis on erection.If you have that much you need not worry. If you want to make sure get yourself by a doctor.
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Question by: GOPAN
Dear Dr.How to avoid homo from mind
Answer by Dr: You can not. One does not choose to be a Homosexual. He is born that way.
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Question by: Bejin
Dear Sir,This is my second letter to you. Please help me !. I am realy worried a lot about my behavior.My problem is I am very much interested in sex. Living in Saudi Arabia with my family. I am 34 years old. Most of the day's i was doing sex 2-3 times with my wife. But now my wife not allowing me to do every day. I am not satisfied with it. My other problem is I like to give her oral sex hours and hours. My wife stopping me sometimes after long time. My real problem is that my wife not interested to do sex daily 2-3 times. She likes weekly 2 times only. But I am not able to control myself. Sir, please advise me how can I manage my sleepless nights.Thanking youSincerelyBejin
Answer by Dr: You seem to be suffering from a psychiatric disorder known as "Obsessive Compulsive Disorder". You need to consult a Psychiatrist.
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Question by: zakkir
am aged 42father of threei was addicted to homosexand i escaped from thatnow a days it re appears to mebecause of that am not geting any interest to sex with my wife
Answer by Dr: As on today the medical fraternity does not know what causes Homosexual Orientation. Hence there are no effectve treatments. In fact Medical Science does not consider it as an "Abnormality". It can be compared to left handedness.Since your orientation is towards men, you may find it difficult to have any sexual interest in women.
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Question by: jayan
Iam 32 yrs married now working in Gulf. My wife is doing self masterbation. she had said to me. Any problem pegenency ? I read in one magazine, it will be difficult ? pls your valuble advice soon ?
Answer by Dr: Masturbation can not come in the way of a pregnancy. For a pregnancy to occur a man should have good quality semen and the woman should a healthy reproductive organs. In addition sexual intercourse should take place around the time of ovulation.
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Question by: joy
i"m 24 yr old .i have a problem .i want to know about HIV because i had sex with a codom after that i am feeling lot of stress and Guilt and i am so scaired abt HIV.i feel that,i lost my Weight.PLZ help me????
Answer by Dr: Condom offers around 98% safety. However if it is used improperly or if there are any tears then the safety comes down. The chances of you getting the infection depends on whether the woman you had sex with is infected with the disease or not. If she is uninfected then you need have no worries. However the best way to check is to get your blood examined. A sophisticated test known as "DNA / RNA PCR test" candetect the presence/ absence of the infection after 72 hours of sexual contact. This is an expensive one and costs around Rs.3000/=. Or else wait upto three months from the time of sex and get a HIV-Elisa blood test.
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Question by: ramesh
sir i will doing more with my but she will not get any sexul feeling .doing time i need little long time also how can get.now i have littile time .some people tell to me vig rx plus good for sex.any problem i will take this medicine.can you reply me pls..i am 35age wife26
Answer by Dr: Do not self mediccate. Your problem has to be thoroughly assessed before a treatment strategy can be chalked out.
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Question by: anu
Hi doc, I wanted to know how long does a regular intercouse last? and also to controlpremature ejaculation are there any methods that are effective?These are the 2 questions that are really important to me...please give me a reply.
Answer by Dr: There are no international / national standards for intercourse duration. All that you need to do is to see that you thrust coitally till your partner reaches her orgasm.Premature Ejaculation can be managed either through Sex Therapy or through Pharmacotherapy. Consult a Medical Sexologist in person.
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Question by: Thomas
After removing the outer skin in the penis, there seems tiny white dots. and my prostate is little bit big. I urinate many times in a day. While I consult with a doctor and made sugar check - up. he tell ok. But I'm afraid tht, is there is any chance of infertility
Answer by Dr: The white spots may be due to fungal infection or due to Vitiligo ( a condition in which there is deficient deposition of the pigment Melanin in the skin).Regarding the frequency of urination there may be low grade urinary infection or you may have hyperactive bladder. None of these conditions will adversely affect your fertility status. You need to consult a Urologist in person.
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Question by: mathai
sir,Iam married in 2005,but Iand my husband live togeter in 6months.but my husband have never interest to sex,i ask to many time ,but respons is silent.he have suffering DM,other wise 30yr wellbeng man.he is silent nature.so i never sexuall activate person.sir whatis soulation please give my replay.
Answer by Dr: Was the marriage performed against his wishes? Some of the causes for lack of interest in sex are : depression, lack of attraction to female partner, homosexuality, personality disorder, mental retardation etc. Diabetes may cause Erectile Dysfunction but does not kill the desire.
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Question by: mathew
is there any exercise or any medicines for sheekrah skhalanam.also for pimples in penis.is there is any relation between sex and pimples in face.
Answer by Dr: Kegel's exercises, Ashwini and Vajroli mudras are said to be useful in Premature Ejaculation. However it is better to undertake Sex Therapy.
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Question by: Saju
Sir,my problem is basically pain in the beginning(root) rightside of the penis. I don't know the rason for this. In my childhood I donot used to keep my penis end hygenically. This continued till I become 27 yrs. that time i found there is fungus infection in the end of penis. it was treated with candid and it paritaly cured. two years back during masturbution my penis bended too much to right and after that there is pain in the root right side. Two months back i cultured my semen and found it is infected with staphylococcus aureus bacteria. Is it the real reason for the pain. I treated it with antibiotic for one month, but not cured well. doctor said i have to take antibiotic for few months. Iam afraid of taking antibiotic for long duration becuase of its toxic side effects. Will i get good homeopathic or ayurvedic treatment for this. Please advise.thankssaju
Answer by Dr: Your penile tissues/ muscles might have been avulsed from their root anchor during the masturbatory episode mentioned by you. You need to be examined by an Urologist.
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Question by: Saju
Sir,my problem is basically pain in the beginning(root) rightside of the penis. I don't know the rason for this. In my childhood I donot used to keep my penis end hygenically. This continued till I become 27 yrs. that time i found there is fungus infection in the end of penis. it was treated with candid and it paritaly cured. two years back during masturbution my penis bended too much to right and after that there is pain in the root right side. Two months back i cultured my semen and found it is infected with staphylococcus aureus bacteria. Is it the real reason for the pain. I treated it with antibiotic for one month, but not cured well. doctor said i have to take antibiotic for few months. Iam afraid of taking antibiotic for long duration becuase of its toxic side effects. Will i get good homeopathic or ayurvedic treatment for this. Please advise.thankssaju
Answer by Dr: Your penile tissues /muscles might have been avulsed from their root anchor during themasturbatory episode mentioned by you. You need to be examined by an Urologist.
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Question by: Vijayakumar
Dear Doctor,I am cardiac patient with hypertension, diabetics. Two years ago I had an attack and done angioplasty and inserted a stent to remove the blockage. I occasionally have sex with my wife but main problem is premature ejaculation and ED.Is there any remedy for these.Please advise.Thanks and best regardsV. Kumar
Answer by Dr: Your Erectile dysfunction may be due to two factors.Deficient blood flow to the penile tissues and a consequence of Premature Ejaculation. The same blood vessel disease that had affected your heart itself may be responsible for the deficient penile flow.You need not worry. Medicines like "Sildenafil Citrate" and "SSRIs" can effectively be used in the management of your sexual problems. However they have to be used only under medical supervision.
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Question by: Vijayakumar
Dear Doctor,I am cardiac patient with hypertension, diabetics. Two years ago I had an attack and done angioplasty and inserted a stent to remove the blockage. I occasionally have sex with my wife but main problem is premature ejaculation and ED.Is there any remedy for these.Please advise.Thanks and best regardsV. Kumar
Answer by Dr: Your Erectile dysfunction may be due to two factors.Deficient blood flow to the penile tissues and a consequence of Premature Ejaculation. The same blood vessel disease that had affected your heart itself may be responsible for the deficient penile flow.You need not worry. Medicines like "Sildenafil Citrate" and "SSRIs" can effectively be used in the management of your sexual problems. However they have to be used only under medical supervision.
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Question by: KN
my problem is that i dont have much hair in my face comapared to other parts of the body. i am a 22/Male. please tell me whether there is any medicine for that or any naural stuffs
Answer by Dr: The volume and condition of your testes has to be checked. The levels of sex and gonadotropic hormones have to be estimated to check whether there is any imbalance in these hormone production. Only then a proper advice can be offered.
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Question by: Dinesh
Sir, I am a 51 year male, recently diagnosed with Grade I BHP; my uroflowmetery, PSA, Kidney Function Tests are normal. I do not have diabetes and take atenolol 50 mg and losartan 50 mg for the past 8 years or so for hypertension. I am physically fairly active and have a satisfactory sexual life. The prostate symptoms are troubling me, so what should I take to relieve the symptoms without effecting my libido? I understand that finasteride, dutasteride and tamsulosin decrease the libido. When does TURP become necessary? Thank you.
Answer by Dr: You need to check with your Urologist regarding the Prostate surgery.The durgs mentioned by you have a potential to adversly affect the sexual response. It is important to realize that these side effects may not occur in every individual using those drugs.There will be individual variations.
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Question by: Santosh
I am 38 years old and my wife is 27 years old. Both of us keep good health and have a girl chid of 5 years. Got married 6 years ago and enjoying a happy life. Some nights we used to have sex 2-3 times in one go(sometimes after a gap of 3-5 minutes and sometimes continuously)and all the times ejaculation is happening and my penis is up during this time. In fact, both of us enjoying this.I would like to know whether this will create any health problems to us.Thanks.
Answer by Dr: It will not create any health problem.
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Question by: sidharth
I am 53 years old. I am not getting an erection as I used to be (maybe about 70 of what I was getting earlier). Also I ejaculate very fast.I am a diabetic (but controlled at around 140). Can you advice me. Also, if can let me know how to meet you?thanks and regards.
Answer by Dr: The lack of rigidity may be due to the complications of diabetes.Diabetes if not under control or is of long duration(even if under control)will damage the endothelium ( inner lining) of the penile blood vessels.This damage will reduce the quantity od blood that can be pooled inside the penis during an erection.If in addition, the nerves are damaged the tissues surrounding the penis muscles can not contract effectively to produce the rigidity / stiffness. Needless to say we have to check whether you have any associated health problems which can also produce erection problem.Premature ejaculation is usually found in diabetics.It is inappropriate to advice without a comprehensive assessment.
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Question by: Yahya
dear sir,i am 40 yeasr old men, i have 3 childrens, i am diebetics patiantNow my problam is when i am with my partner start the intercost within two minuts my energy is gone,that mean water is pull outso we cannot enjoy well,very less time it is not accetpableso how will my problem, wich doctor i should meet
Answer by Dr: You seem to be experiencing a sexual problem known as "Premature Ejaculation". Your diabetic status may be the major contributing factor. However other constitutional and situational causative factors may also be operative.I suggest you consult a Sexologist in person. The management of this sexual problem can be either by means of "Sex Therapy " or "pharmacotherapy".
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Question by: Satheesh
Can u pls tell me how to consult with you in person.Give me your phone no. or clinic address
Answer by Dr: You may contact : (044) 24354242 (044)42024828
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Question by: Sajit
Doctor, After sex I feels to be very tired. I am getting good sleep in night, but very difficult to get up in the morning and dullness at office too. Thanks in advance for your great advice.
Answer by Dr: It is natural for the body to be tired after sex. This is because sex is a sort of physical exercise.The body burns approximately 200 calories during sexual intercourse. If you are sedentary and not physically fit then you get more tired and need a longer resting period. If you exercise regularly and maintain physical fitness then you will be refreshed after a short period of rest.
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Question by: siva
dear doc i hav premature ejaculation i canot perfom sex for along time i ejauclate at the start and also thesperm comes automaticlly in the night i hav svere problem . is tere any medicene for this problem pls prescribe . if u can prescribe ayur vedic medicine itwil be better for mepls help me
Answer by Dr: Premature ejaculation can be caused either by constitutional or by situational factors.Unless the precise causative factors are known it will be difficult to offer therapeutic strategies. Consult your doctor in person.
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Question by: leo
Dear Doctor, basically am from kerla. my age is 40 but i look very yound and handsome, now am working in Dubai for an american company. my family is in kerala, here am staying with my colleges in one room good room. my problem is my college is always forcing to do some unnatural sex habits. first time i always not give any cooperation from my side but slowly i also like this attitute. he always trying to me for anal sex, first i dont like it now a days i also like to do with him. here every three months we got medical check-up that why i am not scared abt ant aids related problem. these habits am continuing with him in my future i got any problem plese advise me. with regardsleo
Answer by Dr: Remember that anus is not meant ( by nature) for sexual intercourse.So you have to be extremely careful when indulging in anal sex.The passive parter may be injured and may develop anal fissures. The active partner is prone to develop urinary infections as fecal matter present in anus and rectum will be harboring organisms like E.Coli.
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Question by: sheela
sir,my name is sheela. i am 26 years old,unmarried girl,working in a private office.i am toomuch interesting in masturbating. i used for it my fingers, banana and long brinjal or egg plant. i am more enjoying when i use brinjal. so most of times i use it. now my parents arrange a marriage proposal. my friends working in my office say that their husbands penies only 3 or 4 inches only. is it true? i am using big and long brinjal more than 9 inches fully use in my pussy.is any problem in marriage life and our sexal intercourse.i cannot sleep now days doctor. no interst in my job also.please help me and give your valuable advice.i am waiting for your immediate reply.please reply in my email address t.s4480@gmail.comthankssheela thomas
Answer by Dr: Do not worry. Different men have different size penises. All of them will not have the same size.The Vagina is a potential space and can stretch to a great extent to accommodate the penis whatever it's size is. But be careful about the objects used by you for masturbation. If they are not sterile you may get vaginal infection.
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Question by: NOUF
iam facing the main problem is that i want daily self fuck.this one any problem in my future life.please help me doctor.i was 24 old.
Answer by Dr: Masturbation will not cause any health problems. But why is that you have this compulsion to do it daily? Is it because you are bored and do not know what to do with your free time or watching pornography daily? Do some introspection.
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Question by: Malini
I have been married for 10 years now and suffer from vaginusmus,my husband's penis is very thick and adds to the problem,I have had many vaginal USGs with no problems so I know there is nothing wrong anatomically.Are there any specific positions that could be helpful?Is there anything else that you can suggest.Thank you.
Answer by Dr: "Vaginismus" is a condition in which a woman involuntarily contracts her vaginal muscles apprehending pain on penetration. This apprehension may be based on real or imaginary pain. More than an ultrasound a vaginal examination will confirm the diagnosis. This condition can be solved easily through Sex Therapy.
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Question by: BIJI
Hello Dr, I want asking about my baby, He is 2 month old ,his one TESTICLES is not yet descend in to his scrotum,can you give me solution pls .Rgds.
Answer by Dr: Please consult a paediatrician.
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Question by: faizalbabu
Dear doctor,I am a 27 year non resident single person.I have a feel of little pain in my left side ball when i am masterbate twice a day or give a touch there.And also i am doubt about the nerve is little big than other one which is going in side the left ball.Will it make difficult to get a baby?.How can i test my count is OK?.
Answer by Dr: Whenever masturbation is done frequently, especially more than once with in a short span of time,then one may develop pain in the testes. This is due to the fact that the testes are overworked. In order to know about your fertility status you have to get your semen analysed in a clinical laboratory after three days of abstinence.
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Question by: jacob
Dear sir,I'am a 17 year old boy.the outer skin of my penis doesnt come down.I can masturbate.there is a skin joining the outer skin and the penis.a small skin in the head of the penis(in the lower side).Sir please help me.PLease tell me what to do. Im desperate.i havent told my parents.Sir please dont descard this letter.Desperate
Answer by Dr: From the description provided by you, I am of the opinion that you may have a condition known as "Phimosis". If it is so you need to undergo a minor surgery called "circumcision". I suggest that you get examined by a doctor so that a correct assessment can be made.
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Question by: RK
I am 66 yrs old male. Diabetes patient for the last 10yrs and have been keeping blood sugar normal by medication. With medication Fasting 108 ,ppbs 118, urine sugar nil.BP with medication is 140/80. Taking Envas 5 mg 0ne in the morning and Amlo5 one at night.Expierencing erectile disfunction for last one year. Tried tablet Penigra 50 as advised by doctor and found effective.Of late these tablets are not found in chemist shops due to some raids and their requirement of keeping lot of documents.Please advise whether there are any other medication available and whether it can be obtained freely without prescription
Answer by Dr: Your Erectile Dysfunction may be due to the complications of diabetes and due to the anti hypertension medications. If you have no contraindication then you can take tablets like Penegra.But this has to be used only under medical supervision. There are a number of other brands available in the market. Check with your doctor.
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Question by: jame
doctor,is the medicine Amiczode H helping to increase the size of penis?. or is there any medicine to increase the size. (present size is too short).pls help on this regardsthaksjamal
Answer by Dr: Once a male penis has grown to its adult size no medicine can make it grow further. Don't be misled spurious advertisements.
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Question by: nayagara
Hi Doctor,Can you tell me ways to hold erection for longer duration...Also certain position like lying flat on a partner results in faster ejaculation compared to doing sex while standing...Any suggestionsthanks,Sreenivas
Answer by Dr: You seem to be having "Premature Ejaculation". This can be due to either constitutional factors or situational factors. Unless the precise causative factors are understood the right suggestions are impossible.
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Question by: tom
dear doctori am working in gulf. age 46.married.before the age of 15 i am masturbating.every day more than 2 times.sometimes 3 times. is it any problem.eventhough i masturbate 3 times day i have no problem sex with my wife. she is living with me in gulf.we really enjoy our sexuallife.no problem. sometimes we use brinjal(vazhuthanaga) in her vagina(yoni).she also like it. is it any problem.plz send reply. is it any problem i masturbate 2 more times daily and also sex with my wife everyday.is it any problem use brinjal into yoni.i am waiting for your reply.thanking youtom
Answer by Dr: You need to do a lot of introspection. Why is that you resort to masturbation when your wife is available and willing for sex ? Why is that you masturbate compulsively at least twice a day? Inserting a brinjal in your wife's vagina is OK as long as the brinjal is washed well and is not contaminated.
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Question by: premsankar
Doctor, my penis is only 4"on erection and its lean and slightly curved.i had sex with a fatty middle aged lady but she complained of not getting orgasm.one of my cloe friends had such large penis and said it is because of early starting of masturbation.is that true?i am 22 now and fed up with my small penis .i fear i cannot lead a marriage life.how can i increase my penile size by any method? also i had black areas inside of my thighs.they are not revealing although i used many antifngalcreams.i m 167 with mediumbuilt body and have a family h/o DM.expecting ur advice for my mind piercing problems,
Answer by Dr: If your lady friend did not get orgasms,it may be due to various factors like your premature ejaculation, inadequate foreplay, the laxity of her vagina etc. Your penis size has nothing to do with it. You need to consult a dermatologist ( skin specialist) regarding the black patches on your thighs.
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Question by: Joy
Dear Doctor,I am 31year Old male and I am having 68Kg weight. My job nature is office job. I am working in Kuwait for past 5 years. I don't have any disease like sugar, pressure, cholesterol etc., but in the starting of winter, for last three years I used to suffer slight wheezing which used to come only in the beginning of winter (which is common for most of the expatriates in Kuwait). I got married 2 months back and I am planning to bring my wife soon. I never had sexual experience till I got married. I am facing the problem of erectile dysfunction. I could not maintain the full erection till the completion of the intercourse. My penis size is three and half inch in full erection. Some of the position which my partner prefers more, I could not do because of the lack of the length in penis.Kindly advise for improving the penis size and proper erection. Awaiting for your valuable and immediate advice.Joy Thomas.
Answer by Dr: The length of your penis has nothing to do with your erection problem. Your erectile dysfunction may be either due to other constitutional factors or situational factors. A thorough assessment has be made before a proper advice can be offered.
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Question by: K.D.Reddy
We r a married couple,we would like to know the following on family planning1)My wife is being inserted the IUD method of Multi load 250 from then on we r not using any sort of other precautions such as condoms.My question to u is,I have read some where that fallopine tubes might pick up Pragnency in IUD method of contraceptions.is that true?and as well can u suggest some new postures of sex as the act has become boring!thaking you.
Answer by Dr: Ectopic Pregnancy ( fertilized egg remaining in the follopian tube itsef and growing) is a freak phenomenon.We just can not blame the IUD ( Intra Uterine Device) alone for it.Instead of depending on my suggestion for coital posture you two should try and find out which ones are not boring. What may be exciting to one couple may not be useful for the other.Remember "different strokes for different folks" ?
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Question by: GEORGE
Doctor,I am a married man 40 yrs old. Let me ask you two things.1. I can not hold upto the time my partner reach orgasm. May be i can hold upto 2/3 minutes only. Is there any treatment to prolong it?2. My penis is little bit small in size (not a thickone). Does it affect my partner's feeling?Pls. advise.I asked my partner many times, she said its all OK.Thanks in advance for your reply
Answer by Dr: As your partner says it is ok, you need not worry. Try and spend more time on foreplay. Observe, during foreplay, which particular act (s) turn her on quickly. Use those foreplay techniques to get her highly aroused and then only start genital intercourse. If your penis size is 2inches or 5 centimeters on erection, then your concerns about your penis size are unfounded.
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Question by: Anil
Respected Sir,My Elder son, aged 13years, studying in 9th standard seems to be insufficient physical growth compared with other children of same age. His sexual organ also very small. I wish know about any treatment or physical exercises or any other solutions available for the same. Please also advice for a good diet chart for him.Awaiting for your early reply.Regards,ANIL
Answer by Dr: Can you elaborate on what you mention as insufficient growth ? As long as he is healthy you need not worry. You may get your son examined by a doctor and take his/ her opinion and advice.
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Question by: suresh
sir , i am 40 yr old and have high blood pressure 140/ 100. i have errection problem during sex and also the errection doesnt lost longer. i am more interested in sex but unable to do sex as i want. pls guide me and suggest me some medicine for good errection.
Answer by Dr: Are you taking medicines for your high blood pressure? Some anti blood pressure medications can adversly affect the erection. Check with your doctor.
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Question by: Varun
Hi,I m a male of 32 yrs.Still single.I m average built.5ft 5 in tall and weight of 56 kg.Doctor my problem is while having sex with my friend in dont get a proper hard erection.When the foreplay starts even without touchin my penis it is fully erect and very hard.But once it starts after 2 mins it looses it erection and will be only semi erect.even while havin intercourse it loses its erection.It doesnt remain hard for a long time.also my penis is just 4 and half inch long while erect.I do get a very hard erection while reading sex stories or watchin porn movies.I masturbate twice a day.Help me ve erection for a long time and also to increase my penis size
Answer by Dr: Your penis size is with in normal range. You need not have any concerns on this. The fact that you get good erections during foreplay is indicative of normal sexual physiology. You seem to be distracted during your sexual act. Do not keep on watching your penis and the status of your erection. Just let yourself go and get totally involved in the pleasure sensations.Things will be all right. What is important is the ability to enjoy the pleasure sensation and not flaunting a big penis.
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Question by: Manu
I am 37, wife 29 yrs, we have a boy 2 yrs (normal delivery) and now she is pregnant. I am in Gulf, came back before one month. My penis is not getting erected as I had before, and the ejaculation not strong. After delivery her vagina is very loose. So we are not getting the full satisfaction from sexual relation (she is not getting the climax from our sexual action, but we agreed she will do masturbation after our relation - is it anything bad) . I want to know is there anything to make vagina tight and to cure my erectile problem
Answer by Dr: As a couple you seem to have two problems. On your part Erectile Dysfunction and on her part Orgasmic Dysfunction. The causes for your Erectile Dysfunction have to be assessed. Her Orgasmic Dysfunction is most likey due to her lax Vagina. When the vagina is lax there is no sufficient penovaginal friction and hence she may not get her Orgasm. It is good that she is masturbating to achieve orgasm. Rest assured that Masturbation can not cause any harm. On the contrary it is beneficial in your situation. Your wife can practice ( after the current pregnancy) Kegel's Exercises to improve the tone of her Vaginal muscles. Ask your wife to request the Gynecologist to teach her these exercises.
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Question by: Manu
I am 37, wife 29 yrs, we have a boy 2 yrs (normal delivery) and now she is pregnant. I am in Gulf, came back before one month. My penis is not getting erected as I had before, and the ejaculation not strong. After delivery her vagina is very loose. So we are not getting the full satisfaction from sexual relation (she is not getting the climax from our sexual action, but we agreed she will do masturbation after our relation - is it anything bad) . I want to know is there anything to make vagina tight and to cure my erectile problem
Answer by Dr: As a couple you seem to have two problems. On your part Erectile Dysfunction and on her part Orgasmic Dysfunction. The causes for your Erectile Dysfunction have to be assessed. Her Orgasmic Dysfunction is most likey due to her lax Vagina. When the vagina is lax there is no sufficient penovaginal friction and hence she may not get her Orgasm. It is good that she is masturbating to achieve orgasm. Rest assured that Masturbation can not cause any harm. On the contrary it is beneficial in your situation. Your wife can practice ( after the current pregnancy) Kegel's Exercises to improve the tone of her Vaginal muscles. Ask your wife to request the Gynecologist to teach her these exercises.
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Question by: Manu
I am 37, wife 29 yrs, we have a boy 2 yrs (normal delivery) and now she is pregnant. I am in Gulf, came back before one month. My penis is not getting erected as I had before, and the ejaculation not strong. After delivery her vagina is very loose. So we are not getting the full satisfaction from sexual relation (she is not getting the climax from our sexual action, but we agreed she will do masturbation after our relation - is it anything bad) . I want to know is there anything to make vagina tight and to cure my erectile problem
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Question by: Geetha
I am 38 years old and married 4 years back.We didnot have intercourse till now. My husband is against meeting male sexologists. We have meeted one lady gynaecologist but she didnotlooked into this matter seriouslyShe said that all are like this and you have to try for it.I thik thatI have vaginismus.Pleasegive me a good direction to meet a lady doctor and a good book or web site regarding this.I am fromTrivandrum in Kerala.
Answer by Dr: First of all your condition has to be properly diagnosed. You are assuming that you have "Vaginismus". You may or may not have it. There may be other causes for the non consummation of your marriage. To find out all these you need the help of a Sexologist. Regarding the website go to any search engine and search for websites dealing with Vaginismus. You may also log on to Wikepedia and read about Vaginismus.
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Question by: Shajahan
have an infection for last 3 years, it a is that somekind of verysmall pox is appearing in the penis after one two weeks it desappear.but after i took some ayurvedic medication, it did not desappeared. what doctor shall i need to consult about this case..
Answer by Dr: Did you have an unprotected sexual intercourse with any body other than your wife ( if you are married) ? If so you may have a sexually tramitted infection known as "Herpes Progenitalis". This has to be treated with a medicine known as "Acyclovir". You need to consult a doctor.
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Question by: Rajesh
Sir,I have recently married. I was unable to penetrate. I tried many times. We had lots of foreplay and when I try to insert, its very painful for her. Please advice.
Answer by Dr: Either your erections are not rigid enough or she is not relaxing her vaginal muscles or your sexual posture / technique is faulty. If she is not lubricating sufficiently or if the technique is faulty it will cause her pain.
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Question by: vamanan
Dear doctor,masterbating once or twice a week after the age of 65. I am 65 now. The habbit followed my me was there even when I was having sexual contacts with my wife. because it gives me ample pleasure.Will it lead to any diseases
Answer by Dr: Masturbation can not cause any harm.
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Question by: MAJEED.M.A.
I am 58 yrs old male,diabetic(under control) suffering from total sexual dysfunction for last 4 months,lack of libido,no erection no urge.pl prescribe a good aphrodiasac/regular treatment to recover past phase of sexual life atleast twice a week of fully satisfactory sex.This is leading to emotional problems amongst us.pl advise.
Answer by Dr: First of all we must find out whether your sexual problems are due to diabetes or due to other factors. The treatment depends on the precise causative factors. For this you need to consult a doctor in person.
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Question by: Kuruvilla
I am married and 34 years old and have 2 children. we are in Kuwait and we both are working. I am very much intrested in sex with my wife. but I am not getting the right response from her sometimes. She is ok but not liking some positions. so that i am getting mood off during the 'time'. what i should do for it?? I am little intrested to seeing 'some photos', but she is not at all intrested in it and she is saying that it is a bad habit. i am just imitating some posses from there. but she is not intrested
Answer by Dr: An individual's sexual value system stems from their family background, the school environment and personal experiences in life. There is nothing right or wrong about it. The problem comes only when the marital partners have different preferences / response levels which are the offshoot of their value systems. The best way to handle this is to sit togetehr and discuss this with your wife in a calm and non accusatory manner.If necessary seek the help of a Sex Counsellor.
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Question by: Paul
Hello Sir,My name is Paul.I am 24 years of old.I used to mastrubate two years ago frequently.But after the advice of a counsellor i stopped doing it..As he referred with my religion stating that it was a sin.I would like to know whether it is wrong? Now i am doing it twice or thrice in a month.I do have the problem of evajucation during sleeping.IS this related to this?
Answer by Dr: Masturbation is not a sin. It is not harmful. Sleep emissions are not related to masturbation.Sleep emissions or night falls is a normal physiological phenomenon.
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Question by: nikhil
I have some doubts on sex.1- What are the sex safe periods for women.2- Is AIDS infect through Sucking(Oral, Breast, Vagina, Penis)3- How can prevent pregnancy from sex.4- Is french kissing causes HIV, if with infected person.5- Is Ass fucking harmful6- How can i find a virgin women7- How can i increase my sex timing, as i cum within 3 minutes on masturbation8- Now i cum only few drops on masturbation is i am not potent for having a kid, in porn movies they cum more like pee9- My penis is small as only 5 inch, how can i increase its size
Answer by Dr: 1) 11th to 18th days in a regular 28 day menstrual cycle are the most fertile period. Hence avoiding sex during those days will minimize the chances of pregnancy.However very few women in the world have such regular periods.So this makes this method of contraception very unreliable. 2)Yes, theoretically speaking 3) By using some method of contraception 4) Again, theoretically speaking 5) if it is not done gently, the anus and rectum will be injured 6) There is no fool proof method of assessing virginity 7)Consult a Sexologist 8)Consult a Sexologist 9)Do not compare yourself with what you see in porn movies. If All that a man requires, for a satisfactory sex life. is a two inch or five centimeter long penis on erection.
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Question by: pradeep
I have a problem with my penis,(last 6 years) some times after erecting or after mastubration the penis feeling pain and that feeling to passing urine but urine will pass some drop and pain will stand upto 10 minutes.please guide me what treatment i should takeregardspradeep
Answer by Dr: You may either have urethritis ( inflammation of the urinary passage) or Prostatitis ( inflammation of the Prostate gland).The causes for this have to be identified before a treatment strategy can be planned.
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Question by: Scaria
I am a diabetic patient,for the last four years,the problem i feeling is my penis are not conditioning well only some times (early morningit becomes raised as full length,sir what is the reason for this I am 46 years old and I residing in Dubai.Hope that you can suggest a good suggestion for me
Answer by Dr: Diabetes per se will not cause erection problems. It is the copmplications of diabetes that are the causes. We have to find out whether you have any diabetic copmplications and also look for Other (non diabetic) causes for your erectile problems. My suggestion will be that you seek the help of a Sexologist in person.
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Question by: Jonathan
Sir,I am a recently married man. I have difficulty in intercourse that it is difficult to penetrate and my partner has pain too. She feels so much pain. My penis is not strait too. As she gets pain we do not try we will enjoy some other methods. I feel her openeing is too small also. Do you see any solution? Is it only a starting trouble. Thanks,Jonathan.
Answer by Dr: I am of the opinion that your sexual technique and posture are faulty. You must be trying to enter her before she is fully aroused and lubricating. Spend more time on foreplay so that she gets aroused fully and becomes wet in the vagina. Enter her only after that. If necessary use artificial lubricants like K-Y jelly. Learn by trial and error method, the correct angle to enter her. This is facilitated by positioning your body / hips in an appropriate position. It is extremely rare where there is an incompatibilty of genital sizes.
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Question by: sam
I am 41 male and my wife is 36 years old.After marriage i noticed that she is not interested in sexual activities.We heve kids.When ever i approching with out full support some times adjusting may be she want to avoid any problems in normal life.I am always getting information and also analizing different subjects .So many cases in our socity that Man not co operating for sex.Pls let me know sir Why they are not cooperating in sexual activities.Every one knows that sex is an essential part of family relation ship and healthy living.why this educated peoples are ignoring intentionally or not.What are the support which i can apply?.Pls help
Answer by Dr: It is unscientific to generalize the behavioral traits of people. Factors like rigid upbringing, religious orthodoxy in parental family, childhood sexual abuse. unhappy relationships, contractual disappointments in the current marriage, harboring myths and misconceptions etc play a role in shaping a person's sexual behavior.
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Question by: george
dear doctor,we got married almost 6 month i caouldnt able to do a long time sex how can i do long time sex and even my penis is not stronger like before is there any remedidie for that.thanking yougeorge
Answer by Dr: first we must find out the cause(s) for your erection problem. The causes can be physical, psychological or a combination of both. Spend more time on foreplay. Get your wife highly aroused. Only then you enter her. This way both of you can enjoy sex.
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Question by: Sumesh
Doctor,Two years after marriage we have no kids. Upon check up found my wife is fine physically. Doc said motility rate is low in my sperm (8) but not suggested any medicine. Could you recommend any medicine or will this be alright in due course. We need kids at earliest. Pls suggest how to go forward?
Answer by Dr: The sperms should have good motility ( atleast 30 % in fast forward grade) to be able to fertilize an egg. This is apart from having 20 million count per milliliter and 40 % having good morphology ( structure). If your sperm motility is poor we must find out the causes for it. Treatment depends on the cause.
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Question by: svk
Dr. I am 31 male. Not married. Height 6 ft. weight- 62 kg. Normally I am healthy. I don't have any other health problem. But I want to know about my sexual health. I am masturbating weekly 3 or 4 times some days more times.(1)How long will get an erected penis (If I masturbate I feel maximum 1 minute or little more. After that penis ejecting. I have any problem? what I want to do ? Any medicine? (2) when my penis is erect it is showing horizontal (If I stand). I it is not coming more up degree. ( I am seeing some sex film in their penis is showing very healthy and more up degree) pls tell what is the actual penis degree while standing.)Why the English men's penis is showing is more up degree.Dr. when I masturbate the sperm (fluid) is coming out slowly. Not pumping , not throwing. But some bodies spam is going out very speedy eject. In masturbating time how long will go the spam( distance form the penis?) Pls tell me Dr.I have any problem? What is premature ejection?
Answer by Dr: No two men's erect penises will be at the same angle. Every one will have different angulations. As long as you have a firm erection and there is no pain on erection you need not worry. Do not compare yourself with movie images. Movie images have optical illusions. When masturbation is done after a highly aroused sexual state to have a sexual release the semen will spurt out with force. When it is done more as a habit than to have sexual release then semen will just seep out. Get examined by doctor to know your sexual fitness.
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Question by: Mohamed
I am undergone a heart operation CRD BFORE 5 YEAR. also diabetics,BP and cholestrol in above normal position and taking medicines as directed by DR. I feeling now that my sexual ability is very very foor and cannot enjoy a little too due to early discharge and non standing up whenever needs.Can I safe from this or not. My age is now nea 57. Expect a solution. Thanks.
Answer by Dr: Your erectile dysfunction may be due to various factors like : endothelial damage ( which is the cause of your heart problem), stress due to major health problems and a consequence of existing premature ejaculation.Your sexual problems can be solved with some sex therapy and medicnes. You have to consult a Sexologist in person.
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Question by: arun
Sir, i am a 21 year old boy.i have a small projection in my right testis. there is no pain or any other disturbance. it has been there for the past one year. the projection is small. there is also a projection like a peanut in the tube connecting that testis (i don't know the name of the tube). is this any dangerous disease. i hadn't consulted a doctor till now.
Answer by Dr: Get yourself examined by a doctor.With out adequate details it is difficult for me to comment on your condition.
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Question by: John
Hi Dr.. I used to start panting before having sex. should I take treatment for the same..John
Answer by Dr: What exactly do you mean by panting before sex? Usually a person will experience certain physiological ( bodily) changes when aroused sexually.The heart will beat faster.The blood pressure will increase and the pulse will be quicker. These are normal changes and will come back to normal pre arousal level.
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Question by: shiyaz
Dear Doctor, My problem is, while doing the sexual inter course,before reaching the peak early ejaculation occurs and me and my partner is not able to enjoy the full thrill of sex.
Answer by Dr: Your sexual problem is known as "Premature Ejaculation". This can occur either due to constitutional factors or due to situational factors. We need to identify the cause(s) for your problem.Only after that we can plan an appropriate treatment strategy.
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Question by: K.
I am 46 years old. Now a day Iam having erection problem even I am interested to do sex with my wife.I am having good health. Is there any madicine for the erection. Please suggest and help me in this problem
Answer by Dr: There has to be some reason(s) for your erection problem. Unless they are identified it is not advisable to think in terms of consuming medicines.
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Question by: vasanthrao
sir,i am Vasanth Rao,now I am in Saudi Arabia.i am 26 years old .now i am thinking about marrige.but untill now i have no sexual experiance with woman.after my study I come here for working .here I living with my Family members.so i can;t interfear with others.if i marry i cant do anything correctly my life partner have no good impression with me so now what i do ? this coming december i go vacation.my whole family make pressure for marriage.pls give a good advice
Answer by Dr: Why do you think that you can't lead a normal sex life when you get married? Getting married is not something like buying a car. You can't ask for a test drive. If you have any concerns get yourself examined by a doctor. If the doctor says there is no physical abnormality, then you can boldly go ahead and get married.
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Question by: krishna
I am 49y old.Can I start Viagra tab. for sex.Basically I have no problem. Once I start Viagra tab., is it necessary to continue this ? Or this will affect future erection ?
Answer by Dr: If you have no sexual problem, then there is no need to use Viagra. This medicine has to be used by a man who has an erectile dysfunction and that too due to some physical causes.
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Question by: ravi
i would like to ask u that i got operated for hurniya after that i feel that my sexuall power or you can say my peni is not raise or not upto the mark and i feel like it became quit thin not like earlier,please can you suggest me...and my age is 27 years and i have to get marry so i m under lot of pressure please help me out from this....
Answer by Dr: Hernis surgery by itself cause sexual problem. If you have a problem it may be due to other causes. Without thoroughly examining you I can not offer you any worthwhile advice. I suggest that you consult yourdoctor in person.
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Question by: Sujith
Dear Sir,I am 23 years old.I tend to masturbate quite frequently when i became 15.I am not able to stop this.I face lots of problems mainly several questions to my mind since its a sin according to our religion.Sir please help me in this matter.
Answer by Dr: Masturbation is a normal physiological phenomenon and is indulged in by majority of people. If you feel guilty you have two options. Seek the help of a psychotherapist so that you can handle yourself with less mental conflict. You can pick up a vigorous outdoor physical activity as a hobby to divert your mental preoccupation with sex.
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Question by: Ravi
Dear Doctor,Im 54 year old male.Recently I was detected as having high BP(190/120).I was advised to take the following tablets:Nicardia Retard 20Listril 20Prazopas XLTenoric 50 and Tonact 20After 3 months of taking all these tablets, my BP now is 120/78.But the doc insists on continuing the medications for another 3 months.Im feeling weak after taking these tablets and my sexual apetite has come down.I had regular sex earlier but now for the last two monthsits zero.Will I be normal if I stop the tablets after the 3 months as advised by the doctor?
Answer by Dr: Many of the antihypertensives (medicines used to control high blood pressure) can adversely affect the sexual response. Discuss your sexual problem with your doctor so that he can change the medications.
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Question by: Jai
Sir,I am married person. Age is 35 My problem is after intercouse, i have pain like buring sensation inside my penis. after i having temptation for urinel and toilet. It will long around an hour. that time I couldn't sleep. nowa days i am avoidin intercourse in nights. before marriage i have the habit of masterbation. that time also the same thing happened. I am waiting your replay
Answer by Dr: You seem to have either urethritis ( inflammation of the urinary passage) or Prostatitis ( infection of the Prostate gland which is situated below the urinary Bladder and is one of the accessory sex glands). You need to consult your doctor in person. Whatever it is it is certainly not due to masturbation.
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Question by: Sree
dear dr.i have the problem is while having sexual relation i can do only very little time. So advice me a medicine which will help for delay and can do for long time.thankssree
Answer by Dr: The reasons for Premature ejaculation vary from constitutional to situational. Unless the causative factors are identified it isdifficult to offer advice.
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Question by: Shaji
I have a doubt related to AIDS. I think AIDS is only tranfering from one person to another and it is not creating a new virus.Plz consider this example.Four Boys B1,B2,B3,B4Four Girls G1,G2,G3,G4Suppose these 8 persons don't have AIDS. If all these boys and Girls are contacting(Sex) each other, is there any chance to get AIDS?
Answer by Dr: In the situation described by you the chances are nil.AIDS can spread to one person from another only if one of the partners is infected with HIV/ AIDS.
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Question by: ajith
I had sex with a strange women 2 years back. After that I am very upset and think I am infected by HIV. Is it sure if that lady was HIV ve ? I have a healthy body and no sign of any problems.
Answer by Dr: Get your blood tested for the presence or absence of HIV antibodies.
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Question by: jinusha
doctors, i am degree student from calicut. My marriage is fixed. I want know what are the safe periods for sex. how can i prevent pregnency for one year.usually i masturbate, is my husband can find my virginity.
Answer by Dr: Ovulation occurs around the 14th day( day 1 is the day on which the bleeding starts)of a regular 28 day menstrual cycle. It is better to avoid sex 5 days prior to and 5 days after this day. Remember that only about 8 % of women have such regular 28 day cycles. The best methods of contraception will be either Oral Contraceptive Pill for you or Condom for him. Masturbation can not tell your husband about your virgin status.
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Question by: Abu
Sir, I would like to get good opinion. I am 30 years old man un married. Everyday I am doing masterbeaten last three years. I cannot control that. Is it any problem will be heappen in my future life. How can I control that. Without do this I cannot get good sleeping also
Answer by Dr: Masturbation can not cause any problem. You can cultivate some out door hobbies or sports to divert your attention / mind. A vigorous physical activity, warm water bath and a sincere prayer before going to sleep will help you to sublimate your sexual appetite.
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Question by: ravindran
Dr i m working ksa. during vacationi am doing sex with wife every day one time some tims two times like this three month i enjoyed .Is there any health problem due to this?- that time wife suffered from hairfalling.when i reach ksa my b p was low and adviced to take healthy food all these due to this sex? pls reply .
Answer by Dr: No. There will be no health problems due to your sexual frequency. Your wife's hair falling and your low BP are not due to sex. They are due to other causes.
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Question by: Shiv
Sir,when i intercourse with my wife, my pennis gets smaller and then i am not getting any feeling. Otherwise, my pennis is strong and i get errected also. Only during intercourse, it gets smaller. I feel very ashamed and desperated. What should I do sir. Please give me solution.Also i dont get sexual feelings when its smaller and so, we stop there sex.Please save me sir.regards
Answer by Dr: I am not clear as to what exactly your problem is. It appears to me that you have problem in sustaining you erection after penetrating the vagina. If it is so we have to find out the cause(s) and institute appropriate treatment strategy.
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Question by: Anil
I have a problums for that when I sex with my wife, within 2 minitues my syrim will out and I canot give a sexual happines for my wife, what i have to do
Answer by Dr: Consult a Sexologist in person.
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Question by: shinesha
sir,is HIV infect through Oral sucking, is from breast sucking, andfrench kissing
Answer by Dr: HIV the Virus which produces AIDS is transmitted through body fluids like blood, milk, semen and vaginl secretions. If there is a raw area in your mouth and if your partner has HIV infection and a open bleeding wound in her mouth/ tongue then you run the risk of getting HIV infection. Similarly if she is infected with HIV her breast milk can pass on the virus tou when you suck her breast and drinkh the milk.
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Question by: hana
i am a female of 22 yrs of age. i was sexually abused at the age of 12 and i dint know it then..i have lost my virginity at a very small age..i have become of marraigabl age and fear the conseques. please tell me if there is any operation that will close up my whole?i cant tell anyone .you should help me.will this affect my life. iam a muslim women.
Answer by Dr: The chances of your future husband coming to know about your previous sex life are negligible. You may consult a Plastic surgeon for Hymenoplasty.
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Question by: sha
Dear Sir,My name is sha.Iam single.I gonna marriage with in 6 months.I am very affraid of about my bad habit.Some times I will masturbate daily,may be 2 times per day.If i stopped this it will continue maximum 1 month.Then i will start again.I need to stop this.Allso I am worried about the length of my penis.Its only between 4.5 to 5.5".Is there any solution to enlargeit.Pls adviseRegardsShihab.
Answer by Dr: Don't worry. Masturbation is not harmful. In all probability you will focus on genital sex and not on masturbation after your marriage. Once a peis has grown to it's adult size nothing can make it grow further.
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Question by: sreegin
Is there any medicine avilable in India for the growth of penis as some medicines are available online. but they need plastic money. Can you suggest some medicine for this that we can buy in indian pharmacy market?
Answer by Dr: The "medicines " available online are all bogus ones. Do not believe in them. Once a male penis has grown to it's adult size nothing in the world can make it grow. If you have any doubts get yourself examined by a qualified medical practioner.
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Question by: seethibiji
dear sirmy semen counting is 55 only and i have urinal infection in my urine what can i do for increasing the semen counting and clear the urinal problem pls give suggestion of this matter now iam working at gulf any medicine or any solution for this problem
Answer by Dr: The sperm count is always expressed in numbers. For exampe X Million per millimeter of semen and not as percentages. Check and get back to me.
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Question by: tom
Premature ejaculation is my problem. After insertion it will take only one minitue to ejaculate. I am not able to satisfy my partner. Before intercourse we are doing so many external activities and it takes more than 10 minitues. After that I am inserting my penis. I used to satisfy my partner by other means like fingering. Is there any medicine for this. I am now 55 years old and living in a Gulf country. Please help me.RegardsTom
Answer by Dr: Yes, there are medicines under the genre of Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors. These have to be taken strictly under medical supervision as they have many side effects.
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Question by: raju
When i am try to sex with my wife my pen erecting but after penetration i feel it is not strong.my wife have good cooperation for sex.I didnt do sex with any women before
Answer by Dr: you seem to have problem in sustaining ecrections. This is called Erectle dysfunction.This may be due to constitutional factors or psychological factors. Get your evaluated.
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Question by: liyamol
What is ur openion abt Oral Sex? I had seen some web site saying that is not advisable coz thats new "Method" of mankind which was not prevailing beofore.And it leads to infection too!!!?? Pls suggest
Answer by Dr: My opinion does not matter. What matters is the scientific facts. Oral sex is safe provided the partners do not harbor infections which are transmitted through genital secretions. Examples are HIV, Hepatitis B etc. The partners also should not have any urinary or oral cavity infections. Most important is to keep the genitals and mouth clean through proper hygenic measures.
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Question by: nithya
Dear Doctor this regarding my husband he is 54 year old.he has diabetic for io years.we did not have any sexual relationship .his penis never erect. it is hanging down just like an old man of 100years since 8 years. he will not admit that it is abnormal. i am very deppressed and nowadays i donot feel like to love him. he is very very angry person will not admit that he can not perform his duty towards his wife. iam 47 year old he has been seen by a doctor and a gynaecologist. he is antideppressant drugs, and some injections to inject on his penis for erection. after the highest dose of injection i can see little penitration. but it will be never hard enough to make love.i feel so depresed i feel idont have any feelings of intimacy towards him. heartbreaking thing forme doctor your earliast reply will be highly appreciable. thanks mrs.a.nair
Answer by Dr: Your husband's Erection problem may be due to diabetic complications and depression. Moreover some drugs used in the treatment of depreesion also will create problems in getting erection. Since he is 54 years of age the levels of "Testosterone" ( male hormone ) may be low in him. A proper and comprehensive work up has to be undertaken to determine the precise causative factors so that the right management strategy can be planned.
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Question by: Thomas,
I am 57 years of age. Have been managing with Diabetes for the past 10 years (under medication every day - Tabs). Otherwise, healthy and active. Slim figure 5'7", weighing66 kg only. I was 70kg about 7 years back. Very interested in sexual frequencies. How to improve the frequency level and how to gain a little more weight. Presently I have sex every week, but orgasm only once and then become tired; However, before 7 years, I used to have at least 2-3 times orgasms and sex frequency was 2 or 3 times a week as well. Please explain in detail how to improve this.Thank you.
Answer by Dr: You must realize that as we age our pace of the sexual response slows down. Hence we can not compare our present sex life with that of our life 7 years ago. Learn to accept the changes occuring in your life. Uncontrolled or inadequately controlled diadetes will make a person lose weight. The ageing process itself will make all of us lose some of the muscle mass. Maintain physical fitness through exercises. Have balanced diabetic diet. Do not smoke, consume alcohol. Have adequate sleep. Most important keep your diabetes under adequate control. You will do much better.
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Question by: AFSAL
I am 55 years old male. Recently (since 1 year) my sexual erecting is very poor and when I have sex with my wife both are not fully satisfied. Moreover, the semen is discharging very fast. What is the problem and what should I do to go back to normal condition?
Answer by Dr: You have two sexual problems - Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation.The Erectle Dysfunction may be a consequence of the aging process or it may be due to physical factors like diabetes, high cholesterol, hormone imbalance, neurological problems etc. Or it may be due to situational factors like sexual boredom, long standing premature ejaculation.The Premature Ejaculation may be due to diabetes, prostate gland problems, anticipatory anxiety or conditioned rapid ejaculatory reflex.Unless the precise causative factors are identified treatment can not be planned. Consult your doctor in person.
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Question by: sathianarayanan
iam aged 38 years. i can not enjoy sex with my wife, because my penis is not becoming strong even i mentally wishes to be so. there was a variation in my blood pressure. but now its ok. for the last 14 months iam in saudi arabia and iam planning for my vacation this month. shall i use viagra or some other types of medicine. kindly advise.thank you
Answer by Dr: First of all we must try and find out the precise cause(s) of your erection problem. Are you taking any medicines to control yourblood pressure. Some of these antihypertensive medications will produce erection problems. Consult your doctor in person. Medicines like Viagra can not be taken indiscriminately. They have to be taken under strict medical supervision.
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Question by: usha
Dr, Iam 26 Yrs Lady,a baby alsoafter delivery (Siserian) my body is very thin, now 1hour I cannot stand or walk that time back pain also start. What I dopl. give me the answer.
Answer by Dr: You need to check with your doctor. The causes for undue tiredness and weakness have to be identified and managed. May be taking care of your young one is draining away all your energies. If so get some domestic help.
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Question by: MATS
i am (36yrs old ) not able enjoy sex for a longer period, i have noticed that semen ejaqvation is very quick in my case. do you sugest any treatment or any exercise to overcome this problem
Answer by Dr: Please refer to previous answers in this column, regarding details about Premature Ejaculation. You can start doing Kegel's Exercises.
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Question by: mustafa
Dear Doctor,My name is mustafa aboobacker, working in sharjah in a pvt firm as production manager for more than 8 years. and i got marriede in 2003 and i have 1 boy.my problem is, the penis is very small and the other thing is, it is not getting strong when i am in sexual activity. and i am using my hand to massage it then only its getting strong, may be my wife is not satisfy with me but she not told me. and i am very shy to consult with a doctor, so pls give your advise about the above matterthx and regards,mustfa aboobacker
Answer by Dr: Scientific Medical practice involves the following steps. First the doctor has to take an adequate medical history. In Sexual Medicine speciality the history has be taken,preferably from both the husband and wife. Next a thorough physical examination has to be performed. Then the relevant and necessary laboratory investigations have to be done. Only then a correct diagnosis can be made. The management of the problem depends on the diagnosis. Hence I suggest that you consult your doctor in person.
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Question by: Roshan
Doctor, I am having a problem of quick ejalucation.I can withstand ejalucation on foreplays and all but once it is inserted into vagina it lasts only 4 or 5 jerks. Can you please tell me a remedy to prolong the intercourse?
Answer by Dr: You have two options. Either undertake Sex Therapy or take some medicines. Both options have to be undertaken under medical supervision.
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Question by: Kurian
Dear Sir,I am going to marry this yearI wish to know that what are the thigs to get a satisfied sexual relation. and also i want to know have any relation with the penis size and length.Could you please tell how much is the minimum size and length for a satisfied sex. have any relation with body weight for a good sex.please send answers to my emaild and dont mention my name if you publish.Thanking youKurian
Answer by Dr: All that a man requires to have a satisfactory sex life is a two inch or five centimeter long penis , that too after an erection.This is because the first two inches of the vagina alone is sensitive to sexual pleasure.What is important is not how big you are but how well you do with what you got.All of us will learn to improve our skills with the passage of time.Be confident and look forward positively to your marriage.
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Question by: Mustafa
If there is any treatment- by medicine (tablet,ointment)to get litle size big? Musli Power the use and effect?
Answer by Dr: Once the penis has grown to it's adult size no medicine can make it big(ger). Don't be mislead by charltons claims and advertisements.
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Question by: Joe
I am 32 Years Old , working. My problem is I like sex and I need it daily, issue is I am not married ,I am going to get married with in 3 months .I had sex with my girl friend 7 times in time of 6 hrs and when ever we meets we do the same some time more than that , if she is not there I do masturbations regularly may be twice in a day ,Please let me know if there any side effect for it, I 6" tall and slim , I am not able to put weight in my body.
Answer by Dr: Since you do not know when you will get next opportunity you are having a number of times in a short span of time when ever you get a chance. This will change when you get married and are sure that you have a partner who is available to you whenever you need. Masturbation is certainly not the cause of you not gaining weight. May be it may be constitutioal.
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Question by: Alex
I am 34 years old married man with 2 kids. I am a homo from my childhood and even now.I realy enjoy sex with handsome men.But I want to get ride of this , as I feels that I should be a matured father to my kids and husband to my wife. my wife don't know that I have such habbit. our intercourse is very rare, ie is maximum of one or two times a month just to satisfy her.please advice me,how to be a gentle man.
Answer by Dr: You need not feel guilty about bisexual orientation.You have not chosen to be one. You were born that way. It is not your fault. The mistake you did was to get married , knowing your homosexual leanings. Now there is no point in crying over spilt milk. Seek the help of a Sex Therapist.
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Question by: Ramji
I've a feeling that my pennis size is going down. ( I am 37 now). I also have a problem of (in the last 3 years) getting utmost pleasure in ~5 to 15mts. How can I ensure that I get satisfaction after I ensure my partner gets?...Thank you for your response and best regards
Answer by Dr: Remember that once a penis has grown to it's adult size,it's size will not reduce, unless a part of it is cut off either through an accident or a surgical procedure. I don't understand the second part of your question.
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Question by: ABEY
1.i have doubt about my fore skin in my penis, whether it is moving backwards properly or not? i have seen in some porn movies that the full skin is moving backwards, my skin is not going backwards like that, so can you give me exact solution on this problem through photographs or n words?(am a bachelor)2.what is the minimum time for me before ejactuation?
Answer by Dr: You may be having "Phimosis", a condition in which the man is unable to pull back his penile foreshin to expose the penis head ( glans penis ). This condition needs surgery. I suggest that you consult a doctor in person.
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Question by: santosh.k
sir,frequent use of viagra, may effect our body or health gradually, also what could be the dosage if recommended, any other medicine instead of this can be used for this purposergds
Answer by Dr: Viagra should not be used more than once in 24hours. The dosage depends on the age of the person, his general condition and on other medications the person may be using concurrently.Most important, it has be used only under medical supervision.
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Question by: arun
dear doctor, i am ejaculating within a minute or two during my intercourse, but i am not ejaculating during the foreplay and i want to know what will be the average time for a satisfactory intercourse. Am i suffering from premature ejaculation. when i ask my partner about her satisfaction she says that she wants me to continue for some more time. kindly give your valuable comment.
Answer by Dr: As your wife says that she wants you to continue for some more time, I have to asume you have "Premature Ejaculation". Read the other Q &A s of this column for more details about Premature Ejaculation.
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Question by: Krishnan
I am 33 year old man. My problem is that while sex semen comes immediately. So I am not able to pleasure my wife. I have tried many times but all the time it happen the same thing. Kindly advise
Answer by Dr: If possible we have to find out the causes for your premature ejaculation. In case it becomes difficult to find out, then you have two options. (1) Undergo Sex Therapy (2) use SSRIs under medical supervision.
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Question by: Viju
Sir ,I am 43 years old and staying in Dubai with my family . My problem when i am going for sex sum time my penni will not getting strong . Then 1 went to meet a doctor and he will advise to me to take viagra tablet .After I take viagra then I enjoy goods sex . Now without viagra my penni is not getting strong and I am very sad ,Kindly advise if any solution for this problem.Awaiting for your kinde adviseRegardsViju
Answer by Dr: Viagra is a good medicine, but needs to be used judiciously. Did your doctor tell the cause / causes of your erection problem ? It is better to eliminate the root cause(s),rather than managing symptomatically.
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Question by: Sunil
Respected sir,i am facing a very serious problem since the date of my marriage.I am a very healthy person with great passion for sex.Before my marriage most of the days i used to masturbate thinking of other ladies.But after my marriage in the first stage of sexual intercourse erection of my cock is reaching at its maximum and i am able to raise the maximum sexual emotion of my wife. But at the time of penetrating my cock is becoming down and able to preceed with erection only by thinking of other ladies.This is creating a prick of concience in me and not have told to my wife about this so far.To escape from this psychological problem what i have to do.Pls advise me.
Answer by Dr: You need to undergo Behaviour Therapy. Consult a Psychotherapist.
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Question by: Anas
Hi sir, I have some problem..That is sexul timing not good very fast dischrging @ some time my penise not strong or not hard..i am 29 old @ i have 6yr old 1 kid.pls pls help me.im do tooo self activitice(soyam bogam) some my frd says that is ur problem,,i dont knw sir..pls help me...i am working in saudi staying with family here not good doctors for this problem solving...pls help me sir any medidcine need me? so pls bye
Answer by Dr: We have to find out, if possible the cause for your Premature Ejaculation. The treatment depends on the cause. Masturbation can not cause Premature Ejaculation.
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Question by: Venugopal
As I am married since last 6 years and haivng a 1 year old daughter. WE ARE LEADING VERY GOOD SEXUAL LIFE, WE DONT LIKE TO HAVE ANY MORE CHILDREN.Kindly suggest a safe and and secure family planning method without any medicine/operation.
Answer by Dr: Your wife can use an "Intra Uterine Device" ( IUD ). Ask her to seek the help of a Gynecologist, who will place the IUD in position.
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Question by: shabeer
Hi SirMy name is shabeer .I am 26 year old Bachelor.I feel I have problem , may be It is noramal.Any way let me tell me my issue After masturbating I am feeling little pain inside my penis and temptation for passing urine. If I Pass urine 2 or 3 times, it is ok.This happened occasionally only. I am masturbating frequently means 4 or 5 times in a week. Before I had sex 3 girls. 2 times I had urine infection also, because am living in abroad(Gulf). I think urine infection because of hot in this countrySir are you think this is serious issue or I can avoid it because I am going to marry soonGive me the clear answer Thanksshabeeer
Answer by Dr: You may have contracted a Sexually Transmitted Infection. Consult your doctor in person, without wasting time.
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Question by: Jai
Dear Doctor,I am 43 yr. old and unmarried.Since the last three years I have developed a condition which characterises as total collapse of the system where there is no sensation while the semen comes out. The thing called 'ejaculation has lost its meaning for me. Infact , due to this, I have stopped masturbating. There is total absence of any sensation. Semen has become thin. I don't know what has caused this. Probably, you would have the answer.What is it called? Is it curable?Kindly advise, how it can be remedied, if at all.Waiting for a reply from you in great earnest.Thanks and regards,Jai.
Answer by Dr: You seem to harbor guilt feelings about masturbation. Let me assure you that Masturbation is a normal physiological phemenon and is indulged in by a majority of the population. Stop focussing on what has happened and involve yourself in some outdoor physical activities.
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Question by: Ajithkumar
Dear Sir,I'm 39 year old married person working in middle east. My family is in India and i went on leave 2 months back. The problem which i faced is i could not control my ejaculation and every thing finishes off very fast.. So doctor please let me know as how can i control things and enjoy a much better sexual life..
Answer by Dr: Prolonged abstinence is one of the causes for Premature Ejaculation. I suggest that you take your family with you to Middle East. Alternately you can use medicines which are called Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors. But these medicines have side effects and hence have to be taken only under medical supervision.
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Question by: Josh
I would like to know how much time will get for ejaculation for a healthy man during intercourse,and like to know any medicine to increase duration
Answer by Dr: There are no prescribed timing. It all depends on how long does the female partner take to get her orgasm. There are certain medicines which will delay the ejaculation. But they have to be taken strictly under medical supervision.
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Question by: Raju
Sir,I am 35 years of age male my problem is that when during the sex ejection is happening within one minute so i can not really enjoying the sex i am tensed a lot while start the sex if it will eject very soon or not how can i extend the time of ejection
Answer by Dr: The primary cause of your Premature ejaculation appears to be "Anticipatory Anxiety". The apprehension (that you may ejaculate fast , this time also) itself will trigger the Ejaculatory reflex to make you ejacualte prematurely. You need to undergo Sex Therapy. Alternately you may pracice "Kegel's exercise" to gain ejaculatory control.
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Question by: Ben
Dear Doctor, i have small problem with my pennis, there are 5 red dots inside my pennis.some times it will go like that some times it's stays for some time, coule please help me .ThanksBen
Answer by Dr: Please consult your doctor in person. I will not be able to assess your problem without a physical examination.
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Question by: aparna
hello doctor, i'm 29 years old got married 3 months back, my husband is 34,now i'm in singapure, i 'm looking thin and my husband is healthy, after 3 months of our marriage, we r not satisfied in our sexual life, intercourse is not possible, after the forplay also, my vagina looks dry and it's painful for me,also last few weeks i saw some yellow discharge always in my panties, itching 's there and some pimples appeared at the right side of my vagina, at the beginning it looks so small, now it's growing, we went to consult a gynac and she said nothing to worry and she advised me to wash with hot water, no medicine was prescribed,coz of these prob we r very much depressed, pls help me to solve these probs
Answer by Dr: Don't get depressed. All sexual problems can be managed one way or the other. If you have yellow vaginal discharge and itchiness of the genitals,it means you have some genital infection and needs to be treated. The vaginal dryness may be due this infection itself or due to other reasons. But first thing first. Go back to your gynec once more for a review.
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Question by: santhosh
I am having itching problem.The areas are inbetween the thigh and below part up to middle of the leg. Some times i feel that some thing is moving inbetween the legs close to genital area and anus area. I met a doctor and using Cultivate ointment and Lamizil ointment. Still I am not recovered. When I stop Medicine after three four days the problem is re appearing. I donot have diabetics. The same problem my wife is also facing.She is having itching in the face also including Vagina.Cheeks some times become reddish while itching.Is it a sexual problem doctor. I never had any second affairs. Please advise me doctor.
Answer by Dr: You may have worm Infestation.I suggest that you both consult a doctor in person. Without a physical examination it is difficult for me to assess your problem.
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Question by: mini
Hi Dr.Iam 29 yrs old and my husband is 35 and we are trying for our second baby and my daughter is now 6 yrs old. we bought one ovulation kit and checked but the ovulation was not seen on previous month. I started checking from the 11 day until 19day. But my periods are regular and coming on 28th day. so iam little surprised to know why the ovulation did'nt happen .
Answer by Dr: You need to be assessed comprehensively. Some women may have "Anovulatory Menstrual Cycles". In other words a woman may have regular periods without releasing eggs. Also get your husband's semen analyzed to make sure his reproductive status.
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Question by: Basheer
Sir, I am 38 yrs old married man with 3 kids i like to know how i can make long time sex without sudden ejaculation.also i can't go to 2nd time sex even after hours later. pls help me thanks
Answer by Dr: Spend more time on foreplay. Enter your wife only when she is highly aroused and is on the point of Orgasm. You may undertake Sex Therapy or use Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors ( SSRI) under Medical Supervision.
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Question by: M.DAS
Dear Doctor,Iam 59 years old, and diabetic since 1994. My blood sugar level is between 135-150 with dionil tablets 3 Nos/day.Iam married and now living in kuwait with my family for the past 20 years.My problem is that though i have lot of sexual feelings, I cannot do an intercourse because my errection power is less.i used sidnofil tablets, but it gave me some bad effect such as blue vision, tight chest and drowsiness etc, and Iam afraid to use such tablets any more. so, kindly advise me a proper solution in order to over come this problem.Thanking You and Best RegardsM.DasKuwait
Answer by Dr: First of all we have to find out the cause of your Erectile Dysfunction. Diabetes may or may not be the cause. Even if it is, you may have associated testosterone deficiency. Your condition needs to be assessed comprehensively. If Sidenafil is not suiting you, a Vaccuum Suction Device can be tried. Or you can undergo a Penile Prosthetic Surgery.
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Question by: jasmine
I am married and working in Gulf,my room mates are not married even they are doing mastrubation,due to that I am also inspiring to do the same with artificial things,any problem?
Answer by Dr: No problem. Whether to masturbate or not is a personal choice. Don't blindly imitate your room mates under peer pressure. In case you decide to resort to gadgets, make sure that you are gentle with the masturbation especially when you use sex toys.
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Question by: Jithesh
How we can increase our penis size.
Answer by Dr: Once the penis has grown to it's adult size nothing can make it grow further. All that a man requires for a satisfactory sex is a two inch ( five centimeter) long penis, that too on erection.
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Question by: john
I had an angioplasty done in June 2003.Please let me know whether it is safe to use Viagra.
Answer by Dr: Get a tread mill stress done. If it is normal then you may use Viagra. Make sure that you are currently not on any medicine which contains Organic Nitrates. If you are on nitrates then Viagra is contraindicated for you. The best thing will be to check with your Cardiologist.
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Question by: Winson
Doctor, how often can a male masturbate in a week? is there any limitation? I masturabte about 4 to 5 times a week, does it have any bad effect on my health?
Answer by Dr: Unfortunately there is no ISI standards for masturbatory frequency. Understand that one should indulge in any sexual activity only when the body pushes for a sexual release and not as a calender of activities. Masturbation is not harmful and a normal physiological phenomenon. In your case it appears as if you are masturbating in order to overcome your boredom. Pick up some hobby and keep yourself engaged.
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Question by: MSH
We are a recently married couples of 30 and 26, my body size is quite avg and her is fatty,I cannot be able to do very fast,but I can do it very fast while masturbating, and i enjoyed it for quite long time.but I have not masturbated after my marriage. I am not getting the same pleasure.
Answer by Dr: I do not understand you. If you can not do fast then you shoud be happy, because your wife will be able to reach Orgasm. If you are referring to the penile erection, then you need to be investigated.
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Question by: Rakesh
Is there any use in masterbating or simply it is a waste of energy. I heard that having sex regularly is equal to doing some exercise. Does this holds true in masturbating also
Answer by Dr: People masturbate for sexual release and not for it's uses. Yes, about 200 calories will be burnt during a sexual intercourse / act.This is equal to a 15 minutes work out on a treadmill.
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Question by: sbs
i'm physically so week, 24 aged, look like a child( no hair growth in body ). i heard about some testosterone boosters like testosterone gel tabls,and pouches.could yu suggest me any treatment
Answer by Dr: Testosterone should be given only when it is deficient.It should not be used as a panacea.If you are weak, we must find out the reasons for it and institute appropriate corrective measures.
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Question by: priya
sometimes i do the masturbation that will effect my married life or not. pls answer
Answer by Dr: Masturbation will not adverely affect your married life.
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Question by: shane
Dear Doctor, when start to do sex within one minute im getting tired. how can i increase my timing.not only first time , second time also. please doctor try to help me thanks
Answer by Dr: I do not understand you. Are you getting tired physically and losing the erection ? or Are you ejaculating fast? These are two entirely different conditions and need to be assessed and managed differently.
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Question by: Jacob
Doctor,I am 37yrs male and healthy. I am experiencing pre-mature ejaculation always, in my lifetime I never had sexual intercourse which lasted morethan 3 or 4 minutes.Sometimes I used 'kamagra' or such pills and still it doesn't give much improvement.Kindly advise, is there any medicine or tratment available. I am from Cochin.ThanksJacob
Answer by Dr: tablets containing "Sildenafil citrate" are meant to be used for Erectile Dysfunction and not for Premature Ejaculation.If we are able to pin point the cause for the problem then we must address those issues. Otherwise the condition can be managed either through " Sex Therapy" or through "Pharmacotherapy". The medicines have side effects and have to be used under medical supervision.
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Question by: Jayakrishnan
What is the best way to avoid premature ejaculation in sexual life and to avoid anxiety.Do you suggest any tablets to resolve this problem.Please give me the answer at your earliest.
Answer by Dr: First we must try and find out ( if possible) the causative factor in your case.Only then we can think of a management strategy. There are some tablets but they have to be used under medical supervision after weighing the pros and cons.Consult your doctor in person.
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Question by: MOHAMMED
Can intercourse possible after getting my partner preganent. If the case till how many month it is possible?
Answer by Dr: A pregnant woman can, by and large, have sex during pregnancy right till the ninth month provided she has no complications. Sexual intercourse should be avoided by those women : who have prevoiusly delivered premature babies ; who have dilated cervix ; who are carrying foetuses less than 1.5 kgs in weight ; who have had abortions before . It will be better to check with the doctor, in person, to rule out these complications.
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Question by: John
Is there a way to increase one's penis size in length and girth and if so what is the maximum size it can grow. And I am not talking about when one has an erection. This is a sincere question. Thanks!
Answer by Dr: Once a penis has grown to it's adult size no technique can make it grow further. The size of the flaccid ( non erect) penis varies from man to man. The purpose of a penis is to become erect during an intercouse so that it can enter a woman's vagina to give her the pleasure and to deposit the semen inside the vagina. For this purpose all that a man needs is an erect penis of two inch ( five centimeter) length. Recently some surgeons are experimenting with "Penile Augmentation Surgery".But the results are not encouraging.
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Question by: sunilkumar
Hello Sir, How are you?Hope fine.I would like to know about penis.My penis not straite,how can i make it straite?any treatment for this?i dont like operation to do this.I saw somewhere a vaccum treatment is it possible?waiting your response.Regrds,Sunil.
Answer by Dr: Nobody's penis will be pointing straight at right angle(to the body). A slight curvature is a common phenomenon. The degree of curvature varies from man to man. You need not worry. Since this is a normal phenomenon you need no treatment. Vaccum Device is used only where there is an Erectile dysfunction and not for correcting curvatures.
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